Up next in How to Improve Your Sex Life (50 videos)
Spice up your love life -- and learn how to handle any sexual situation that may arise -- with the advice in these Howcast videos.
You Will Need
- Sex partner
Suss out slow and sexy
If your man whispers sweet nothings and covers you with soft kisses, don't dismiss him as hokey. It means he's ready to make a connection.
Decipher long foreplay
Long luxurious foreplay leading to athletic sack sessions? You've got an extrovert who loves to socialize and be in the spotlight.
Reveal what excitable means
If he's easily aroused but distant during the act and seems emotionally conflicted afterward, your man may be a little neurotic. Get him to open up, and lure him back for round two by stroking his ego with a few naughty compliments.
Figure out spontaneous
Spontaneous sex is the hallmark of a man who's turned on by variety. You won't have to tell him twice to try something new, but due to his short attention span you may have to work to keep him focused on the relationship.
Get to the bottom of hard and manly
A hard, fast, man-on-top style is the calling card of the alpha male. Always be direct when you want something from this guy; subtlety isn't his thing.
Get educated on wild and crazy
Outrageous props and dirty scenarios are the domain of a man obsessed with fantasy. If too much kink weirds you out, suggest a novelty-free bedroom session. If he's willing to compromise, he's a keeper; if not, it's time to move on.