How to Say I Love You for the First Time
If you get butterflies every time you see that special someone, learn how to tell them how you feel.
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You Will Need
- Forethought
- Inner strength
- Courage
Steps
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Step 1
Assess your relationship
Assess your time together. Every relationship evolves differently, but it's best to wait at least two months before saying the "L" word.
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Step 2
Plan ahead
Think ahead to plan something special such as a night out, dinner at home, or ice cream in the park and seize the moment when it feels right -- but don't force it.
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Step 3
Take a risk
Rely on your inner strength and work up the courage to let the other person know how you feel -- and be prepared to hear that they might not feel the same way.
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Step 4
Give the person time
Give the other person time to adjust and think about it, and tell them directly to not answer until they are ready.
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Be prepared to wait hours or even days for an answer. Don't rush the other person.
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Step 5
Beware of digital traps
Beware of using either e-mail or text messages to say "I love you" for the first time. While they may feel safer, they are too impersonal.
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Step 6
Be creative
Be creative when it comes to saying "I love you." Signs, notes, and other nonverbal cues can work wonderfully if you keep them personal and genuine.
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One of the oldest Valentine's Day cards written in English dates back to 1477, over 500 years ago.
