How to Get a Guy's Attention
If you're struggling to get noticed by Mr. Right, this guide will turn on a flashing arrow over your head so you can meet the man of your dreams.
Up next in How to Be a Good Flirt (9 videos)
Learn how to flirt -- and how to know if he's into you -- with the advice in these Howcast videos.
You Will Need
- Research
- Proximity
- Internet access
- Electronic device
- Flirtatiousness
- Confidence
- Sports team apparel (optional)
Steps
-
Step 1
Research him
Do a little research -- talk to his friends to find about what he's like and what he likes to do.
-
Step 2
Get closer
Get closer by joining his gym or volunteering or participating in causes he believes in, such as a homeless shelter, soup kitchen, political rally, or church program. Choose only the activities that you're actually interested in, too, so that you're spending time around him without being creepy.
-
Wear his favorite sports team's jersey or colors to school, a party, or whenever you're around him.
-
Step 3
Pay him a compliment
Pay him a compliment via text message, e-mail or online through a social network.
-
Step 4
Whip out the electronic device
Whip out the latest electronic device to show that you are tech savvy. This is a great way to catch his eye without being too obvious.
-
Step 5
Play to his baser instincts
Flirt with him and then be coy or play hard to get. Most guys enjoy a good chase.
-
Step 6
Be confident
Be confident in yourself above all else. Trying to be someone you're not will only attract the wrong kind of man for you.
-
The male frigate bird will inflate a large, bright red sac under its beak in order to attract a mate.
