How to Get Along with People
Don't let ego or self-interest get in the way of getting along with people. Think of it as helping yourself as much as it is making life better for others.
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You Will Need
- Smile
- Positive attitude
- Trustworthiness
- Easygoing manner
- Responsibility
- Helpfulness
- Humor
Steps
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Step 1
Be kind
Greet people, smile, and cultivate a persuasive manner and tone in relationships with coworkers. Even if you dislike someone, your good behavior reduces tension.
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Step 2
Go along
Go along with innocent comments or humor and don't be overly sensitive. Give people room if you sense that your habits annoy them.
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Step 3
Forgive and consider others
Forgive instead of harboring grudges. Remember that most people are doing the best they can. Discuss things and listen sensitively to find areas of agreement.
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Step 4
Admit mistakes
Admit when you're wrong, take criticism, and show appreciation for the effort others make to reach out.
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Drawing attention to yourself only alienates people -- let others have the spotlight.
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Step 5
Lend a hand
Lend a hand or an ear in all situations, establishing yourself as the "go-to" person. Don't speak until you're sure what you say is true, kind, and necessary.
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Step 6
Cooperate and joke
Use humor to cooperate or lighten the mood. Try to understand and respect others, and enjoy getting along with those around you.
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Research shows that children who grow up with one or more siblings get along better with their classmates in kindergarten than do only-children.
