How to Have Hotter Sex

Sex life gone from sizzling to so-so? Raise the temperature with these passion tips, pleasure tricks, and lusty adventures.


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Spice up your love life -- and learn how to handle any sexual situation that may arise -- with the advice in these Howcast videos. You'll learn how to perform a striptease, get rid of a one-night stand, have sex in the office and not get caught, spring clean your sex life, have hotter sex, talk her into having sex with you, undo a bra with one hand, have stronger erections, talk dirty, improve sexual foreplay, and much, much more.


You Will Need

  • Quickies
  • Peppermint drink or candy
  • A-spot
  • Specifics about your partner's body
  • Porn
  • Creativity
  • Cologne (Optional)


  1. Step 1

    Squeeze in quickies

    Squeeze in a quickie whenever and wherever the mood strikes. The spontaneity, time constraint, and -- in some cases -- fear of getting caught, can help make sex hotter.

  2. Save the candlelight dinners for date night, not sex night. Downing cocktails and digesting a big meal don't foster hot sex.

  3. Step 2

    Suck a peppermint

    Get your mouth minty fresh with a sip of peppermint schnapps or tea, or by chewing on a piece of peppermint gum or candy. Then kiss one of your partner's erogenous zones and gently blow on the spot. The combination of the peppermint and the air creates a cool sensation that heightens arousal.

  4. Step 3

    Find the A-spot

    Forget the G-spot. Instead, look for the A-spot, supposedly located a bit higher up in the vagina from where the G-spot is said to be located. Stimulating this point may increase pleasure for some women, which will make sex hotter their partners, too.

  5. If she likes your cologne, spray a little of it on the sheets to increase her arousal.

  6. Step 4

    Be specific

    Whisper about specific details of your partner's body that you find irresistible. It's much more stimulating than hearing a generic comment that could be applied to anyone.

  7. Step 5

    Mute a porn movie

    Watch a porn movie on mute. You'll be stimulated -- and perhaps inspired -- by the action without being distracted by the corny plot and dialogue.

  8. Step 6

    Abstain from penetration

    Tell your lover you want to do everything in bed but penetration. Knowing you can't go there will make you both want it more -- and force you to get creative.

  9. According to a study, women who stood on the equivalent of a 3-inch heel improved their pelvic muscle strength, which may help promote better orgasms.