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Spice up your love life -- and learn how to handle any sexual situation that may arise -- with the advice in these Howcast videos.
You Will Need
- Peppermint drink or candy
- Specifics about your partner's body
- Cologne (Optional)
Squeeze in quickies
Squeeze in a quickie whenever and wherever the mood strikes. The spontaneity, time constraint, and -- in some cases -- fear of getting caught, can help make sex hotter.
Suck a peppermint
Get your mouth minty fresh with a sip of peppermint schnapps or tea, or by chewing on a piece of peppermint gum or candy. Then kiss one of your partner's erogenous zones and gently blow on the spot. The combination of the peppermint and the air creates a cool sensation that heightens arousal.
Find the A-spot
Forget the G-spot. Instead, look for the A-spot, supposedly located a bit higher up in the vagina from where the G-spot is said to be located. Stimulating this point may increase pleasure for some women, which will make sex hotter their partners, too.
Whisper about specific details of your partner's body that you find irresistible. It's much more stimulating than hearing a generic comment that could be applied to anyone.
Mute a porn movie
Watch a porn movie on mute. You'll be stimulated -- and perhaps inspired -- by the action without being distracted by the corny plot and dialogue.
Abstain from penetration
Tell your lover you want to do everything in bed but penetration. Knowing you can't go there will make you both want it more -- and force you to get creative.