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Spice up your love life -- and learn how to handle any sexual situation that may arise -- with the advice in these Howcast videos.
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Keep away from money
Try not to fight about money, and don't let an argument about something else evolve into a battle over finances. In a survey, couples reported that money spats rarely led to make-up sex.
Guys, if you want make-up sex, you're probably going to have to be the one to extend the olive branch. According to research, men are instinctively drawn to kissing and making up. So don't just apologize: start wooing her!
Put the fight aside
Don't worry if you haven't totally resolved the problem that made you mad in the first place; it can wait. Part of the reason make-up sex feels so good is because the adrenaline rush you experience during a fight gets transferred
Don't be passive-aggressive
Participate fully and enthusiastically in the make-up sex--or don't participate at all. Passive-aggressiveness will only complicate matters.
Don't ignore big problems
Don't use sex to avoid fixing serious problems in your relationship. Make-up sex is great, but it can only take a couple so far.