How to Be a Ladies' Man
Want to develop some winning ways with women? Try these techniques and you, too, will be a ladies' man.
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You Will Need
- Appreciation of women
- Self-deprecating humor
- Compliments
- Listening skills
- Honesty
- Sexual prowess
Steps
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Step 1
Know what a ladies' man is
Know what a ladies' man is -- a man who genuinely likes women as much as they like him. Don't confuse a ladies man with a womanizer, who is more of a user than a lover.
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Step 2
Be able to laugh at yourself
Be able to laugh at yourself. Nearly all women are attracted to a man who can make them laugh, but they are most drawn to a guy who has the ability to poke fun at himself.
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Step 3
Be good with compliments
Praise women's appearance often, and be specific when you do. A successful ladies' man doesn't just rattle off a generic, "you look nice," and never makes a woman fish for compliments. He notices her efforts to look good, and never fails to remark on them.
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81 percent of women surveyed would love their partner to say that their hairstyle or outfit is nice.
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Step 4
Be good in bed
Be good in bed. You can't be a ladies' man if you don't deliver in the sack!
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Step 5
Listen up
Really listen to everything the women in your life say. If they mention an upcoming event that they're excited or nervous about, make a note of it and call to ask how things went. A ladies' man makes each lady in his life feel she's very special.
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Step 6
Be honest
Be honest about your intentions: if you meet a woman who's looking for a commitment, and you're not prepared to make one, say so. A man becomes a ladies' man by respecting the women in his life enough to level with them.
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Classic ladies' man Sean Connery was named People magazine's "Sexiest Man Alive" in 1989 at age 59.
