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Learn how to flirt -- and how to know if he's into you -- with the advice in these Howcast videos.
You Will Need
- Flirting style
- Listening skills
- Happy demeanor
Choose a flirting style
Choose a flirting style. A communications researcher found there are different types of flirting: physical flirts aren't bashful about showing sexual attraction, polite flirts are more subdued, sincere flirts are straightforward about their romantic intentions, and playful flirts are more interested in the game than in scoring.
Make the first move
Make the first move. It shows confidence, which is the hallmark of a great flirt.
Give the person your undivided attention. The best flirts make whomever they're talking to feel like the only person in the room.
Take mental notes
Make a mental note of something they say so you can circle back to it later. It not only shows people you're listening, but makes them think you've got something in common.
Hold back a little
Hold back a little. The best flirts are subtle; they don't try to overpower people with their charm.
Be in a good mood
Be in a good mood, or at least fake it. Remember: The best flirts aren't just sexy; they're fun.