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    <title>How To Ask Out a Girl</title>
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      <![CDATA[Asking a girl out on a date can be daunting. But with a positive attitude and a little preparation, you’ll soon be wooing the girl—or girls—of your dreams.]]>
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        <![CDATA[A little courage]]>
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        <![CDATA[Some self-assurance]]>
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        <![CDATA[Your best set of clothes]]>
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        <title>Decide where</title>
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          <![CDATA[Decide beforehand where you want to take her, if you’re lucky enough to get the date. To a fancy restaurant? A movie? Something more original? If possible, choose something that appeals to her interests.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Decide beforehand where you want to take her, if you’re lucky enough to get the date. To a fancy restaurant? A movie? Something more original? If possible, choose something that appeals to her interests.</p>]]>
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        <title>Look your best</title>
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          <![CDATA[Look your best. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt to get a date, but it will help if you’re well groomed.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Look your best. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt to get a date, but it will help if you’re well groomed.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Wear clothes you feel comfortable in. Now is not the time to experiment with a whole new look that may make you feel self-conscious or awkward. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Wear clothes you feel comfortable in. Now is not the time to experiment with a whole new look that may make you feel self-conscious or awkward.</p>]]>
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        <title>Pick your moment</title>
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          <![CDATA[Pick your moment. Asking a girl for a date when she’s rushed or with other people may torpedo your chances. Wait until it’s just you two and you’re not likely to be interrupted.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Pick your moment. Asking a girl for a date when she’s rushed or with other people may torpedo your chances. Wait until it’s just you two and you’re not likely to be interrupted.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Be yourself. A sincere geek comes across far better than a guy doing a poor imitation of James Bond.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Be yourself. A sincere geek comes across far better than a guy doing a poor imitation of James Bond.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you wear cologne, go easy on it: You want to date her, not knock her out. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you wear cologne, go easy on it: You want to date her, not knock her out.</p>]]>
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        <title>Compliment her</title>
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          <![CDATA[When it’s time to make your move, begin by paying her a compliment. She’ll feel good about herself and look kindly on you. But be sincere—no one likes to be patronized.
]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>When it’s time to make your move, begin by paying her a compliment. She’ll feel good about herself and look kindly on you. But be sincere—no one likes to be patronized.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[A funny comment can lighten the mood—just make sure it’s not at her expense! Everyone likes someone who can make them laugh.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>A funny comment can lighten the mood—just make sure it’s not at her expense! Everyone likes someone who can make them laugh.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Take the plunge and ask her out. Nervous? Remind yourself that she can only say “yes” or “no.”]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Take the plunge and ask her out. Nervous? Remind yourself that she can only say “yes” or “no.”</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If she says no, don’t take it personally. You’re not attracted to everyone either, right? Plus, her rejection may have nothing to do with you. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If she says no, don’t take it personally. You’re not attracted to everyone either, right? Plus, her rejection may have nothing to do with you.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If she says yes, set a date and time immediately. Now go home and get ready for your date. And whatever you do, don’t be late!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If she says yes, set a date and time immediately. Now go home and get ready for your date. And whatever you do, don’t be late!</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[The average single person will go on at least 100 dates in his or her lifetime.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>The average single person will go on at least 100 dates in his or her lifetime.</p>]]>
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