• Sex & Relationships »

  More Categories

  • Arts & Media
  • Business & Finance
  • Careers & Education
  • Cars & Transportation
  • Crafts & Hobbies
  • Environment
  • First Aid & Safety
  • Food & Drink
  • Games
  • Health & Nutrition
  • Holidays & Celebrations
  • House & Garden

  • Kids
  • Language & Reference
  • Mind & Body
  • Parenting & Family
  • Performing Arts
  • Personal Care & Style
  • Pets
  • Religion & Spirituality
  • Sports & Fitness
  • Technology
  • Teens
  • Travel
  • All Categories
• Dating »

  More Categories

  • Communication
  • Friends & Neighbors
  • Gay & Lesbian
  • Marriage
  • Roommates
  • Sex
  • Single Life
  • Weddings
• Asking Someone Out »

  More Categories

  • General Dating
  • Breaking Up
  • Dating & Sexual Etiquette
  • Dating Ideas
  • Flirting
  • Online Dating & Personal Ads
  • Serious Relationships
  • Infidelity

How To Ask Out a Girl

• Info
• Comment
• Playlist
• Favorite
• Report

• 41,087 views
• Asking a girl out on a date can be daunting. But with a positive attitude and a little preparation, you’ll soon be wooing the girl—or girls—of…more »Asking a girl out on a date can be daunting. But with a positive attitude and a little preparation, you’ll soon be wooing the girl—or girls—of your dreams. « less
• Added December 12, 2007

Link

Embed Customize

Hide options

Choose from the following options, the embed code changes based on your selection.

Color

461

Size Width Height

Playback Enable full screen player Automatically start playing video Show slow motion controls

Preview Embed Code (Copy and paste this code onto your site) <object width="425" height="352" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" id="howcastplayer"><param name="movie" value="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=461"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=461" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="352" allowFullScreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" ></embed></object>

Add To Playlist

Preview

Close

Embed Code (Copy and paste this code into your site)

This video has Easy Steps. | Show all steps » Print

You Will Need

• A little courage
• Some self-assurance
• Your best set of clothes

• 

  Step 1.

  Decide where

  Decide beforehand where you want to take her, if you’re lucky enough to get the date. To a fancy restaurant? A movie? Something more original? If possible, choose something that appeals to her interests.

• 

  Step 2.

  Look your best

  Look your best. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt to get a date, but it will help if you’re well groomed.

• Wear clothes you feel comfortable in. Now is not the time to experiment with a whole new look that may make you feel self-conscious or awkward.

• 

  Step 3.

  Pick your moment

  Pick your moment. Asking a girl for a date when she’s rushed or with other people may torpedo your chances. Wait until it’s just you two and you’re not likely to be interrupted.

• 

  Step 4.

  Be yourself

  Be yourself. A sincere geek comes across far better than a guy doing a poor imitation of James Bond.

• If you wear cologne, go easy on it: You want to date her, not knock her out.

• 

  Step 5.

  Compliment her

  When it’s time to make your move, begin by paying her a compliment. She’ll feel good about herself and look kindly on you. But be sincere—no one likes to be patronized.

• A funny comment can lighten the mood—just make sure it’s not at her expense! Everyone likes someone who can make them laugh.

• 

  Step 6.

  Ask her out

  Take the plunge and ask her out. Nervous? Remind yourself that she can only say “yes” or “no.”

• 

  Step 7.

  If she says no

  If she says no, don’t take it personally. You’re not attracted to everyone either, right? Plus, her rejection may have nothing to do with you.

• 

  Step 8.

  If she says yes

  If she says yes, set a date and time immediately. Now go home and get ready for your date. And whatever you do, don’t be late!

• The average single person will go on at least 100 dates in his or her lifetime.

Show comments rated greater than 10 Show comments rated greater than 5 Show comments rated greater than 0 Show comments rated greater than -5 Show comments rated greater than -10

Comments View all (10)...

Show Comment by MegT (Rated 2)

• -
• +
• 2

I love the ring slip.

Reply about 1 year ago by MegT

Show Comment by xReedx (Rated 2)

• -
• +
• 2

where i live the only way to get girls is to buy them drugs, from what i've seen girls don't particularly like "nice guys" they want them to be gender bending emo kids who will go out and get as drunk and high as possible with them.

Reply about 1 year ago by xReedx

Show Comment by norgon (Rated 2)

• -
• +
• 2

I think the audio thing is probably a result of this being created by a director in the "Howcast Network" as opposed to something produced in-house at Howcast. Well done still!

Reply about 1 year ago by norgon

Show Comment by speakeasy (Rated 1)

• -
• +
• 1

Hey that guy brings a calender with him just like me! ;)

Reply about 1 year ago by speakeasy

Show Comment by luckysod04 (Rated 1)

• -
• +
• 1

love how he slams the planner on the table

Reply 9 months ago by luckysod04

Show Comment by Alexa (Rated 1)

• -
• +
• 1

Hilarious! Well cast.

Reply about 1 year ago by Alexa

Show Fact by live2learn (Rated 1)

• -
• +
• 1

This stuff works!

Reply 9 months ago by live2learn

Show Comment by gully (Rated 0)

• -
• +
• 0

nicely done. Audio is a bit low upon video start up, and I had to adjust my speakers to hear.

Reply about 1 year ago by gully

Show Comment by sgreegor (Rated 0)

• -
• +
• 0

Yeah, the audio was very low as compared to the other videos. I had to turn it up my computer.

Reply about 1 year ago by sgreegor

Show Comment by Steven_Gaski (Rated 0)

• -
• +
• 0

I have watched this video... now no one can say I don't know how. Isn't that sad?

Reply 3 months ago by Steven_Gaski

View all comments (10)...

Post a Comment

Join us or Sign in to post a comment. Sign in using your Facebook to comment
and share your activity with your friends