How To Ask Out a Girl

  • December 12, 2007
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Asking a girl out on a date can be daunting. But with a positive attitude and a little preparation, you’ll soon be wooing the girl—or girls—of your dreams.

You Will Need

  • A little courage
  • Some self-assurance
  • Your best set of clothes
How To Ask Out a Girl: Decide where

Step 1: Decide where

Decide beforehand where you want to take her, if you’re lucky enough to get the date. To a fancy restaurant? A movie? Something more original? If possible, choose something that appeals to her interests.

How To Ask Out a Girl: Look your best

Step 2: Look your best

Look your best. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt to get a date, but it will help if you’re well groomed.

Wear clothes you feel comfortable in. Now is not the time to experiment with a whole new look that may make you feel self-conscious or awkward.

How To Ask Out a Girl: Pick your moment

Step 3: Pick your moment

Pick your moment. Asking a girl for a date when she’s rushed or with other people may torpedo your chances. Wait until it’s just you two and you’re not likely to be interrupted.

How To Ask Out a Girl: Be yourself

Step 4: Be yourself

Be yourself. A sincere geek comes across far better than a guy doing a poor imitation of James Bond.

If you wear cologne, go easy on it: You want to date her, not knock her out.

How To Ask Out a Girl: Compliment her

Step 5: Compliment her

When it’s time to make your move, begin by paying her a compliment. She’ll feel good about herself and look kindly on you. But be sincere—no one likes to be patronized.

A funny comment can lighten the mood—just make sure it’s not at her expense! Everyone likes someone who can make them laugh.

How To Ask Out a Girl: Ask her out

Step 6: Ask her out

Take the plunge and ask her out. Nervous? Remind yourself that she can only say “yes” or “no.”

How To Ask Out a Girl: If she says no

Step 7: If she says no

If she says no, don’t take it personally. You’re not attracted to everyone either, right? Plus, her rejection may have nothing to do with you.

How To Ask Out a Girl: If she says yes

Step 8: If she says yes

If she says yes, set a date and time immediately. Now go home and get ready for your date. And whatever you do, don’t be late!

The average single person will go on at least 100 dates in his or her lifetime.

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MegT

I love the ring slip.

over 4 years ago by MegT

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xReedx

where i live the only way to get girls is to buy them drugs, from what i've seen girls don't particularly like ";nice guys"; they want them to be gender bending emo kids who will go out and get as drunk and high as possible with them.

over 3 years ago by xReedx

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norgon

I think the audio thing is probably a result of this being created by a director in the ";Howcast Network"; as opposed to something produced in-house at Howcast. Well done still!

over 3 years ago by norgon

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Alexa

Hilarious! Well cast.

over 4 years ago by Alexa

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speakeasy

Hey that guy brings a calender with him just like me! ;)

over 4 years ago by speakeasy

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live2learn

This stuff works!

over 3 years ago by live2learn

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luckysod04

love how he slams the planner on the table

over 3 years ago by luckysod04

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sgreegor

Yeah, the audio was very low as compared to the other videos. I had to turn it up my computer.

over 4 years ago by sgreegor

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Steven_Gaski

I have watched this video... now no one can say I don't know how. Isn't that sad?

over 2 years ago by Steven_Gaski

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gully

nicely done. Audio is a bit low upon video start up, and I had to adjust my speakers to hear.

over 4 years ago by gully

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Bronxpuertoricankid1986

Actually i cant figure out how can a single man can go on 100 dates if they dont have any guy friends any female friends and that is shy and cannot develop any social skills or even funny jokes ? how can i over come that and yes females 90 percent of the type give me reject numbers ?

over 2 years ago by Bronxpuertoricankid1986

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Bronxpuertoricankid1986

what else can i add yes ive never been on a real date or even held a females hands im 23 years old what can i do ?

over 2 years ago by Bronxpuertoricankid1986

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over 2 years ago by tobysky

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baller45

i did this and it works

1 day ago by baller45

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