How To Make Friends With a Bartender

  • December 17, 2007
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Turn your favorite bar into a home away from home.

You Will Need

  • Neighborhood watering hole
  • Bartender
  • Good attitude
  • Good joke or bit of trivia (optional)
How To Make Friends With a Bartender: Smile & wait patiently

Step 1: Smile & wait patiently

Approach the bar, smile, and—most importantly—wait patiently for the bartender to approach.

How To Make Friends With a Bartender: Be polite

Step 2: Be polite

Be polite. The bartender is a server, not a servant.

How To Make Friends With a Bartender: Make conversation

Step 3: Make conversation

If he isn’t busy, make some conversation. Avoid lengthy philosophical treatises in favor of a funny story from your workday or a recap of a great book you just read.

Share a fun bit of trivia or a good joke. Bartenders love to pass them on and will appreciate a customer who provides new material.

How To Make Friends With a Bartender: Be upbeat

Step 4: Be upbeat

Be upbeat. Contrary to popular belief, pouring out your troubles to the person pouring your pint is not always appropriate.

How To Make Friends With a Bartender: Don't be a pest

Step 5: Don't be a pest

If the bartender is busy, don’t be a pest or chatter incessantly while he or she is trying to turn out drinks. Keep in mind that the server is at work.

How To Make Friends With a Bartender: Tip generously

Step 6: Tip generously

The quickest way into a bartender’s good graces is a generous tip!

Don’t ask for free drinks. A bartender can’t always provide them and won’t look kindly on someone who always has his hand out.

How To Make Friends With a Bartender: Invite him out

Step 7: Invite him out

To seal the deal, ask him or her to join you and your friends for a nightcap…at another bar, of course.

The term “happy hour” originated on U.S. Navy vessels as slang for the time set aside for evening entertainment.

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Comments (5)

Alexa

Love that this is in the college survival guide! Next step is to make one about the power you wield once that bartender is your buddy!

over 4 years ago by Alexa

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Klamj

Very funny and fun to watch!

over 4 years ago by Klamj

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gully

Do you need and have permission to feature product advertising in backgroun? eg: samuel adams? The video is a little blueish...could be cleaner. All in all, good points and funny. Nicely done.

over 4 years ago by gully

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Inlightent

What do you mean could be cleaner?

over 3 years ago by Inlightent

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SeaLightEntertainment

I think what gully means, is cleaner in the sense of color correction (blue tint, brighting and contrast controls, etc.). There is also interlacing happening so he may mean that as well. Typically, de-interlaced video is optimal for the internet.

about 1 year ago by SeaLightEntertainment

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