Up next in Middle School & High School Dating Advice (35 videos)
It's tough being a teen. Check out the dating tips for high school and middle school students in this Howcast video series.
Hey guys, my name is Shallon and I am here to help you with all the questions you might have about love, lust, romance, and everything in between. For more, visit me on twitter at downTownShallon or be sure to check out my website shallononline.com. Boys, you guys are always saying to me, how do I know what a woman wants? how do I know what she is thinking? I can't understand or she is so confusing. Here are a few tricks to figure out what a girl's body language is really trying to communicate. There are few really good signs that you want your romantic encounter to have. #1 you want her to be facing you. You want her legs to be crossed towards you, not away from you, that is a bad sign. You want her hands to be free. If she is seeing like this, not a good sign either, that means she is closed off. If you are having a confrontation about something or you are asking her a question and she has to give an answer. If she is touching her face at all or putting her hand in front of her face she could be lying, subconsciously that is a way to physically stop the words from coming out of your mouth. Hmm, interesting right?. Some other good signs, she is playing with her hair a little bit, not like a maniac, crazy, cocker spaniel way, but just a little bit of touching here and there, very good. If she is touching her neck or shoulders, also very good, same for if she is blushing. I am a huge blusher, I can't even help myself, so for girls blushing it doesn't mean you are making her uncomfortable necessarily, it means you are ruffling her feathers in a good way, but here is a little tip that not a lot of people know. You could actually change a girl's thought pattern if you change her body language. So say a girl is sitting like this, this means she is not receiving your message whatever it is you are saying, but if you can get her to uncross her arms, either ask her to hold something or play with something or touch something, by opening up her body language you can change what's happening in her mind. People have done studies and when they change their body language their thoughts about the situation unconsciously follow suit and become more positive, I know, wait, genius. How easy is that.