How to Be the Best Kisser

Learn how to be the best kisser from kissing expert Shallon Lester in this Howcast video.

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Are you a good kisser? Before you answer, check out the dozens of kissing techniques Shallon Lester demonstrates in these videos, which include how to kiss with passion, how to kiss dirty, and how to kiss someone at school. Surely there's something you can improve on or add to your repertoire! P.S.: There's even good advice on how to fix a bad kisser.

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Speaker 1: The same thing that makes a great kisser makes a best friend. They listen and they pay attention to what you need. So when two people have the most perfect kiss ever, it's because they are really like a mirror image of one another. There's complete reciprocity. They open their mouths at the same time. They have just the right amount of tongue at the same time. And you can achieve that by paying attention to your partner. So if you go into a kiss with, like, this agenda to just, like, thrust your tongue on down there, there's a good chance that your partner is going to be on a different page. So ladies, you want to let the man be in the driver's seat on this, and let him set the pace for the kiss, and then you reciprocate but don't escalate. Huh? Let's see what my boo has to say. Speaker 2: You ever watch "Hitch"? It's about the 90/10, right? So you go 90, let the girl go 10 to know that she wants it. Hand on the . . . like this, right? Make sure everything's good. Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. Speaker 2: Go 90.

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  • Shallon Lester

    Dubbed "Carrie Bradshaw 2.0" by Cosmopolitan magazine, Shallon Lester is a two-time published author, dating expert and reality star. In 2008 she co-authored "Hot Mess: Summer in the City" with Julie Kraut; she currently writes for Glamour magazine and the TV show Gossip Girl. Her new novel "Exes and Ohs: A Downtown Girl's (Mostly Awkward) Tales of Love, Revenge and a Little Facebook Stalking" details her life as a single girl in Manhattan, a la Chelsea Handler but, as her publisher puts it, "better written and fueled by Veuve Cliquot instead of Grey Goose." She lives in New York and Newport Beach, CA. She is fluent in French, Italian and sexting.