How to Convince Your Lover to Let You Videotape Your Lovemaking

Sex tapes aren’t just for celebrities anymore! But first you need to talk your camera-shy lover into participating.

You will need

  • Timing
  • Sensitivity
  • A willingness to compromise
  • Preparedness to be dumped

Step 1 Pick a good time Wait for a good time to bring up the subject—like when your lover is feeling good about their body.

Step 2 Address their concerns Respectfully listen to any reservations they have and address those concerns as best you can.

Step 3 Set ground rules Offer to set ground rules that might make them feel more comfortable, like dimming the lights or obscuring their face.

Step 4 Compromise Explore a compromise, like only certain acts will be taped.

Step 5 Negotiate See if you can make a deal with them—you’ll fulfill one of their fantasies if they’ll do this.

Step 6 Stay hopeful Stay hopeful and keep bringing it up. Don’t pester them, but in time they just might come to see things your way.