How to Talk to Girls

If you're like a lot of guys, you might stumble a bit when talking to girls. But you don't have to.

You will need

  • A girl to talk to
  • Listening skills
  • Confidence

Step 1 Listen to her Actively listen when you’re talking to a girl and focus on what’s important to her.

Step 2 Ask questions Ask questions that show you’re interested. Ask her to expand on something she told you about herself.

Step 3 Ask open-ended questions Ask open-ended questions that might have simple answers, but might also allow you to strike up a conversation.

Step 4 Be confident Act confidently, but don’t be cocky. Body language says a lot about confidence, so stand up straight and practice good posture.

Step 5 Talk clearly with strength Speak clearly and with authority. This doesn’t mean you should talk like a police officer, but make sure she hears you and can tell you believe what you’re saying. Be direct and to the point.

Step 6 Keep the conversation light Keep the conversation light while you’re getting to know her. Avoid controversial topics, like religion and politics, and sad or profound topics, like death. Start on a lighter note. You want her to remember you fondly, not as a potential threat.

Step 7 Be yourself Be yourself. That’s who you want her to like.