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How to Get a Girl Back

She threw in the towel before you were ready. Get on her good side and win her back.


  • Step 1: Admit you were wrong Admit what you did was wrong, even of you don't think you were. Acknowledge that you hurt her, and then apologize.
  • Step 2: Get help Do not repeat the actions that caused her to break up with you. If you need professional help, get it.
  • Step 3: Let go Let go. If you need to vent, talk with someone or write your feelings down on a piece of paper and then throw it away.
  • TIP: Confide in someone you trust.
  • Step 4: Do not stalk her Stop all communication with her. This may be a hard step to follow, but calling, e-mailing, texting, and going to her work or where she hangs out will chase her further away.
  • TIP: If she calls you, just listen.
  • Step 5: Take time Build your self-confidence and take time to focus on yourself. Start a new hobby, continue an old one, or hang out with your friends. When you are happy and confident with yourself when you run into your ex, she will be more attracted to you.
  • Step 6: Be positive Focus on all of the positive things in your life such as good friends, family, your job, your hobby, or your health.
  • TIP: Be open to dating and attending social events. If she finds out you are dating, she may realize how much she misses you.
  • Step 7: Remember Remember important events in her life. Send her a card letting her know that the events in her life are important to you.
  • FACT: There were approximately 2.2 million marriages in 2008 in the United States.

You Will Need

  • Empathy
  • Professional help
  • Friends
  • Pen and paper
  • Patience
  • Hobby
  • Positive attitude
  • Card

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