How to Vacation with Moody Teens

Don't let a sulking adolescent ruin your family getaway. A little flexibility will go a long way toward wiping the frown off their face.

You will need

  • Open mind
  • Teen-friendly accomodations
  • Teen guest
  • Internet and cell phone restrictions
  • Lowered expectations

Step 1 Give them a say Include them in the planning stages. Let them have a say in the destination, itinerary, and activities.

Step 2 Find teen-friendly accomodations Try to stay in hotels and resorts with teen-friendly features like wireless internet access, pools, gyms, and game rooms.

Step 3 Let them bring a friend Consider letting them bring along a friend. Two happy teenagers are easier to handle than a single unhappy one.

Step 4 Give them independence Give them some independence. Let them order room service some nights instead of accompanying you to a restaurant. If you don’t want them wandering around alone, let them choose a few activities to enroll in. Provide them with a little vacation money to spend as they want.

Step 5 Limit their electronic use Restrict their cell phone and computer use to certain times of the day. Otherwise, you may as well leave them at home.

Step 6 Lower expectations Don’t expect them to share your enthusiasm about walking tours, museum trips, and overall family togetherness. By lowering your expectations, you won’t be as annoyed — and you just might end up pleasantly surprised!