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How to Get the Girl of your Dreams

Does she make your stomach flutter? Is she always on your mind? When you see her, does time move in slow motion? She's the girl of your dreams. Get her into your life.


  • Step 1: Be confident Keep your head up and confidently approach her.
  • TIP: Wear a friendly smile.
  • Step 2: Start a conversation Start up a conversation with her. Ask her open-ended questions -- not Yes/No or Either/Or -- to get her to talk about herself.
  • Step 3: Listen Listen to her and pay attention to what she talks about. If she favors topics that you know nothing about, ask her questions to show you are interested, and read up on them so you can contribute to the conversation.
  • TIP: Do not interrupt her when she speaks.
  • Step 4: Make her laugh Make her laugh and show her your sense of humor. There are few situations where humor isn't welcome.
  • Step 5: Compliment her Compliment her and ask her out on a date. Suggest a venue you know -- because you listened to her -- that she will like.
  • Step 6: Treat her well Treat her like she is the woman, not one of your buddies. Be on time, open doors for her, and make her feel like she is the only woman for you.
  • Step 7: Tell her your feelings Be honest and sincere and tell her how you feel. In time, the girl of your dreams will become the woman on your arm.
  • FACT: In 2008, New Jersey was the first state to pass a law requiring online dating sites to state if they conduct background checks on applicants.

You Will Need

  • Confidence
  • Communication skills
  • Listening skills
  • Sense of humor
  • Awareness
  • Honesty
  • Friendly smile (optional)

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