- Step 1: Define it Talk about the meaning of loyalty with your kids and why it is a virtue.
- TIP: Stories from Aesop's Fables for younger children, or novels and movies such as The Outsiders for older ones, can help teach the concept of loyalty.
- Step 2: Be a good example Set a good example of loyalty, for instance by standing up for your family when they are mistreated and following through on your commitments.
- Step 3: Use teachable moments Look for teachable moments with a moral about loyalty or disloyalty, such as when your child shows school spirit, does something patriotic, or is betrayed by a friend.
- TIP: Reminding your child how they feel when others treat them with loyalty may help inspire them to be loyal in return.
- Step 4: Use slogans Repeat catchy slogans about loyalty that your kids will remember, such as, "Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other is gold."
- Step 5: Fine-tune Help your children fine-tune their understanding of loyalty by trying to explain that keeping some types of wrongdoing a secret is not true loyalty, but false loyalty.
- FACT: Dr. Seuss' first classic book about the loyal elephant Horton, titled Horton Hatches the Egg, was first published in 1940, and its sequel, Horton Hears a Who, was published in 1954.
You Will Need
- A good example
- Teachable moments
- Stories and fables (optional)