How to Have Hotter Sex

Sex life gone from sizzling to so-so? Raise the temperature with these passion tips, pleasure tricks, and lusty adventures.

You will need

  • Quickies
  • Peppermint drink or candy
  • A-spot
  • Specifics about your partner's body
  • Porn
  • Creativity
  • Cologne (Optional)

Step 1 Squeeze in quickies Squeeze in a quickie whenever and wherever the mood strikes. The spontaneity, time constraint, and — in some cases — fear of getting caught, can help make sex hotter.

Step 2 Suck a peppermint Get your mouth minty fresh with a sip of peppermint schnapps or tea, or by chewing on a piece of peppermint gum or candy. Then kiss one of your partner’s erogenous zones and gently blow on the spot. The combination of the peppermint and the air creates a cool sensation that heightens arousal.

Step 3 Find the A-spot Forget the G-spot. Instead, look for the A-spot, supposedly located a bit higher up in the vagina from where the G-spot is said to be located. Stimulating this point may increase pleasure for some women, which will make sex hotter their partners, too.

Step 4 Be specific Whisper about specific details of your partner’s body that you find irresistible. It’s much more stimulating than hearing a generic comment that could be applied to anyone.

Step 5 Mute a porn movie Watch a porn movie on mute. You’ll be stimulated — and perhaps inspired — by the action without being distracted by the corny plot and dialogue.

Step 6 Abstain from penetration Tell your lover you want to do everything in bed but penetration. Knowing you can’t go there will make you both want it more — and force you to get creative.