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How to Please a Woman in Bed

Want to give your partner more pleasure in the sack? Here's what sex surveys reveal about what women want in bed.


  • Step 1: Get her in the mood Do some chores around the house before initiating sex: 72 percent of women polled cited it as the number one way to turn them on, paving the way for you to please her in bed. If you don't live together, do a surprise favor for her
  • Step 2: Engage in more foreplay Engage in plenty of foreplay to please a woman in bed: When women were asked what they'd like more of when it comes to sex, foreplay won by a landslide.
  • Step 3: Touch her more Touch her more during foreplay. Experts in female sexuality say most men don't realize just how much touching a woman needs before she's aroused enough for sexual intercourse.
  • TIP: The backs of the legs, the neck, and behind the ears are erogenous zones.
  • Step 4: Pleasure her orally Give her oral sex. In one poll, the majority of women not only rated it as the most pleasurable sexual activity -- they cited it as the sex act most likely to bring them to orgasm.
  • TIP: The best oral sex technique is one that incorporates their lover's fingers, according to women surveyed.
  • Step 5: Do it doggie style Do it doggie style. Women voted it their favorite sexual position, followed by them on top, and then missionary position. Remember: knowing how to please a woman in bed is something we should all get behind.
  • FACT: 96 percent of women will give a guy a second chance in bed if he's awful the first time, according to one survey

You Will Need

  • Consideration
  • Foreplay
  • Touching
  • Oral sex skills
  • A sexual position she likes
  • Fantasy fulfillment

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