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How to Get a Boy's Attention

Learn how to get a boy's attention in this teen dating advice video with expert Shallon Lester.


Hey guys. My name is Shallon and I'm here to help you with all the questions you might have about love, lust, romance, and everything in between. For more, visit me on twitter @downtownshallon or be sure to check out my website In middle school it's easy for a girl to feel invisible. Trust me I know I felt very invisible until I turned about 19. So hopefully you will learn from my mistakes. At your age the key to getting a boys attention is to be approachable. Guys mature a lot slower than girls. We know this. So while you might be ready to have a relationship and talk to a guy and flirt, he's still quite a few years behind you in terms of development, so he might be a little afraid of you. Might be a little skittish, so the more you can do to make yourself approachable like not surrounding yourself with your friends 24 hours a day, not piling on the makeup tempting though that may be, not wearing heels, not being too loud. Just be natural. Be yourself and let him come to you. Also a few things like smiling at him, making eye contact, striking up nice easy, breezy conversations will go so far. You don't need to make any grand gestures or go out of your way. If a guy is worth your time he will notice you.

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