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Gentlemen, did you know 98% of communication is non-verbal? This means that while your mouth might be saying one thing if you're body language doesn't match up whit that message, you could be treading water when talking to a girl. So what exactly is good effective body language when talking to a girl ? So glad you asked! First and formost its good posture, I cannot stress this enough you always want to have your shoulders back and your head up like a man! How does Wolverine walk, yeah he doesn't walk like this he walks whit shoulders back so emulate that! If you are talking to a women you also engage whit her, look her in the eyes, it's so important, even if you are nervous. I know but if you are not looking her in the eyes she's not gonna asume you are nervous but she's gona asume that you are uninterested, and if thats not the case you dont want to send that message! Also, I know that your hands can get fidgety , so instead of like fiddling whit something, if you have something in your pockets put them in your back pockets that opens up your postures, it lifts your chest forward, shows off those biceps and it keeps you from like hunching over whit your hands in your front pockets, 'cus this is a closed off gesture and you're sending the message: ""Stop talking to me sweetheart!"" . You dont want that, so hands in your pockets, up, and if you are listening to her, tilt your head ever so slightly, thats a big inter-personal communication gesture that shows you're listening and you receive her message and you see her in a different light, quite literally you see her in a different way! I know, Science! who knew it could be useful when you grow up ? So to recap: chest up, shoulders back, look her in the eyes and tilt your head, she'll fill the vibe!