My name is Barbara Esses and I do events for a living. I'm Ruthie Hecht; I'm an event planner and I work with and for my mother. We're going to teach you the do's and don'ts for the perfect wedding. There was an entire world of several billion people watching the wedding ceremony of Kate and William and everyone was waiting for the kiss. A bride and groom should kiss in the way that makes them the most comfortable and it should be as spontaneous as it could be. I would not plan it. I would not practice it. Let it be spontaneous and go with the emotions of the moment. You're married. Do what you feel comfortable doing, but do it a little more enthusiastic than Kate and William.