My name is Barbara Esses and I do events for a living. I'm Ruthie Hecht; I'm an event planner and I work with and for my mother. We're going to teach you the do's and don'ts for the perfect wedding. it is 2011 and we live in a world of unbelievable technology. Who would've believed where we are today. When you take lighting and use it for a wedding, it changes the room, it changes the space, it changes the feel, it changes the mood. It does anything and everything you want it to do. Lighting is a tool for which you can make anything you want look good. You can take the ugliest room in the worldVideo won't play all the way through.