My name is Barbara Esses and I do events for a living. I'm Ruthie Hecht; I'm an event planner and I work with and for my mother. We're going to teach you the do's and don'ts for the perfect wedding. If the goal of your wedding is to have a very very hard dancing party, then you have to leave by example. You have to make sure, as a bride and groom, that you're on the center of the floor all night. Make sure to invite all your friends in. Rather than just to be standing there the two of you, gather your friends around you, make a circle. By that, you get everyone on to the dance floor. You'll have an amazing evening.