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How to Date Older Women

Learn how to date older women from dating coach Rachel DeAlto in this dating tips video from Howcast. Thumbnail: Jeremy Vandel/Flickr


Guys, we're going to talk about dating older women. So maybe you have that little cougar fetish going on. Go for it, absolutely. Just know what you're getting into.

So, you know, it depends on kind of how old you are and how old she is. If you're dating somebody, you know, 15 years older and you're in your 40's you know, you need to realize that you guys are at two different places in your life. She might not be looking for anything serious, maybe she is. But it's all about setting up your expectations. So, most of the times, and this is a complete generalization so feel free to ignore me but, you guys are in two different places. She's probably not interested in anything serious, and most of the time when women date considerably younger men, they're kind of looking for one thing, and if that's what you're into, absolutely go for it. It can be a very educational experience.

If a 45 year old woman wants to date a 25 year old guy, you know, she's probably looking to just, you know, get her rocks off and have a good time. And if, you know, they're both consenting adults and they want to have a good time, and you know, they had a couple too many martinis at the bar, do what you got to do. But don't expect to have a long term relationship because it typically doesn't happen when there's such a big difference. Especially if you guys have different goals.

At 45 a woman is you know, kind of in her career path and, you know, might be done with the children part of her life, and at 25 you might be in a completely different situation. So just be honest with yourself and be honest with her, and then go have some fun.

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