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How to Understand Women

Learn how to understand women from dating coach Rachel DeAlto in this dating tips for guys video from Howcast. Thumbnail: Kevin Dooley/Flickr


This video is about how to understand women. I don't think we have enough time for this but I'm going to break it down as simply as possible. Women need to feel safe. I don't care what woman you are dating, it doesn't matter, if you really want to understand women, which is probably why you clicked on this, you need to make her feel safe. If you want to have a relationship with her you want to make her understand that you're as into her as she's seeing. There's nothing scarier than having somebody put their feelings out there and not have them in return. So, we're pretty simple creatures. If you like us, let us know you like us. If you don't like us then don't waste our time.

So, it's really about sending the right signals, letting them know that they're reciprocated if they're into you or letting them walk away if you're not. So, that's it in a nutshell. Otherwise it's going to take years and therapy. You don't understand me, we want to feel safe! We want to be loved. Well, everybody wants to be loved but I think women above all. Sometimes we don't get you guys. I think guys are relatively simple creatures too but at the same time sometimes we mix signals together between the two sexes and it's all about making guys feel good and women feel safe. If this mixes together we might have a relationship.

The woman in your life should like she's a priority above work, above your friends. It doesn't mean you can't hang out with your friends or that you can't be completely dedicated to your work but if the woman in your life isn't feeling like she is your number one that's going to be a problem. So, it's all coming back to making her feel like she is, you know, your queen and pedestal. You compliment and you pay attention and you're romantic on occasion. We're not asking for the world here but you can't go through an entire relationship without making the person you're with feel beautiful and loved so you have put a little effort in. That's what relationships are about.

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