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How to Know When It's Serious with a Girl

Learn to sense a serious relationship from dating coach Rachel DeAlto in this dating tips for guys Howcast video. Thumbnail: LadyDragonflyCC /Flickr


So let's talk about when it's serious. And honestly, you guys should know this, because you're going to be the initiator of it. So if you're going to take it to the next level, it's got to come from you. And you're going to kind of take the lead and let us know that, "You know what? I want you to be my girlfriend."

We're going to wait for you to say, "I don't want you seeing other people." So how do you know when it's serious? Because you said so. So like I said before, get the guts to actually step up to the plate, tell the people what you want that you're dating. And if you're interested in having a committed relationship, go after it. And if it's actually been a good relationship to that point, she's going to say yes. You'll know because you want to spend more time with this person.

If you're dating somebody and you can't picture them dating somebody else or you don't want to date anyone else. And you want to talk to them every night before they go to bed. And you want to talk to them every morning when you wake up. Then you know that it's a situation that you need to step up to the plate and call them your girlfriend. It's all about knowing how you feel about them to figure out if it's serious to you. Because it has to be serious to you for it to work.

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