I think this is probably a really popular video for guys. Because you know, a lot of guys, they don't want to jump in too fast. They want to keep it casual. They want to make sure she understands the casual. And I think that's the biggest thing. Is managing expectations.
So if you want to keep it casual, you know, date around and you're not looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend situation, it's really up to you to set the expectations low enough so that she doesn't think it's going somewhere faster.
So it's all about, you know, pacing yourself. Don't start talking about marriage and kids, you know, at all. Because immediately it gets the wheels turning for them. Limit your conversations, you know. If you're looking to have a casual relationship with somebody, you're probably having a casual relationship with other people. So, you know, you don't want to be seeing her all the time and getting her expectations and hopes up that this is turning into something else.
It's also about being honest, you know. If you're not looking for a relationship, you really owe it to her to let her know that. You know. And let her know it from the start. Because the biggest thing you can do is just be respectful to the person that you're with. Because obviously you like them at some point, you know, and even if you don't want to get serious with them, you still like them. So be respectful of them enough to let them know that listen, you know I like this. Let's see where it goes, let's keep it casual, and if you're honest and you're upfront and your actions match your words, you have nothing to worry about.