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What to Do with Your Hands When Kissing

Learn what to do with your hands when kissing from kissing expert Shallon Lester in this Howcast video.


Speaker 1: Sometimes the hardest part about making out is knowing what to do with your hands. We've all seen Talladega Nights Ricky Bobby, that's not what you wanna do when you're making out.

Speaker 3: Here's a really easy guide. Girls, you want to give a man a sense of control and a little bit of sensuality. But not an overly aggressive tone. Is that confusing? I know, I know. Here I'm gonna show you. OK so when you're kissing a guy, put your arms around his waist. Because you want to keep him against you and you want to let him know you like that he's kissing you. And that can be hard sometimes if you're nervous. You tend to throw your arms down at your side as you've seen in some of my other videos. So put your arm around him, massage this area of the man. We always think that guys want to touch our boobs. Two way street. Two way boobs street.

Speaker 2: I like to get my boobs touched.

Speaker 3: Yup. Second base action. So massage him here. The collar bone has a lot of nerve endings. Also if you wanna go down the hip, don't go down to...

Speaker 2: Never never land.

Speaker 3: ...yeah. No. You're gonna wanna make him think you're going there but oh diversion . Exit around the turnpike. And you're gonna go right down the hip. Right there. Another great thing to do is to put this hand or any hand really, into his hair and make a fist. So you gently tug on him. Look at him, look at him. He's like a golden retriever.

Speaker 1: I know. Like that?

Speaker 3: If you pull like this...

Speaker 2: Ow ow! No no no.

Speaker 3: ...right. That's painful. You don't wanna tug. This isn't Iran. OK. So let's show this in action. But before we do, why don't you tell us what a guy should do.

Speaker 2: What a guy should do. Very simple. We have 3 options. Option 1. We have here, which they love.

Speaker 3: Yeah we do.

Speaker 1: We love it.

Speaker 2: This is actually the first move to go in. It's here to the chin, and then it's pulling. Right? Very movie-esque? But it works.

Speaker 3: Oh it does, it does.

Speaker 2: Option 2, neck.
Speaker 1: Yeah.

Speaker 2: Caress the neck. Don't try to.

Speaker 1: Don't try to choke her.

Speaker 2: Yeah.

Speaker 1: Not a Dateline special.

Speaker 2: No. So it's just this. Just to let her know you're there. You know?

Speaker 1: And we like it.

Speaker 2: Option 3, hair. I like it, she likes it.

Speaker 3: We love it. But guys, if a girl has a complicated up-do or even a pony tail, don't go jamming your hand in there and rooting around like you're digging for gold. Be respectful of the time she's taken to look her best.

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