Virgo is called the sign of service. Of course this makes it sound as if Virgos are servants, but no. Virgo is born wanting to utilize its talents, its creativity, its brilliance, its brain power. Virgo does not feel complete unless he or she feels used, maybe that's the wrong word, utilized. Virgo is a perfectionist, can be very hard on himself, herself. Virgo is deeply sensitive and highly intelligent.
In general, what a Virgo needs from anyone, from friends, from a love partner, or even in a first love affair, is someone who can fit in with Virgo's need to excel or need to do. Virgos tend not to be lazy. They don't lie around. They're not wasteful or wastrels. Virgos are here to be serious, to be perfect, and then there is a certain reserve to Virgos. They too want to feel secure. Virgo is an earth sign. All the earth signs have in common the fact that they are looking for stability. In love, in life, what Virgo wants is to create a stable existence in which he or she uses his talents, her talents and is in a committed, faithful, loyal love affair.