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How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You

Learn how to make a man fall in love with you with the help of relationship expert Jonathon Aslay in this Howcast video about men and love.


How to make a guy fall in love with you.

First off, I don't believe in making someone do anything. Okay? But I will tell you about men is, we love the chase. Okay?

In my book 'The Relationships Men Commit to and Why,' I have a whole chapter devoted to what I call the love pie. So I want you to imagine a relationship like a big pie. Okay? I cut that pie in half. You do your half, he does his half. But, take a little bit away from that half. That one percent, so he's always kind of chasing you. The best way for a man to fall in love with you, is when he's coming towards you versus you coming towards him.

I don't think you should make a man fall in love with you. He should naturally want to do it, because of your fantastic essence, of who you are. So forcing a man to do anything, rarely ever works. Okay? But men do like the chase. They like to come to you, and really, ultimately, he will fall in love with you, if he's making the effort versus you doing all the work.

Let me tell you, if you're forcing the relationship, that's a warning sign that this relationship isn't going to work. Relationships that flow are the relationships that last a lifetime, but if you're making all the effort, and if you're doing all the work, chances are he isn't going to fall in love with you. It should be a natural balance, but give him and allow him the space to come to you. That's the way men fall in love with you.

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