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How to Understand Men

Learn how to understand men from relationship expert Jonathon Aslay in this Howcast video about men and love.


OK, when it comes to comes to understanding guys, as your guys find the male mind, we guys are actually complicated, believe it or not.

As much as everyone tells you we're simple, we're just basically an On-Off switch, there's a lot more to guys.

And one thing guys don't like, is to be set up to fail. You're getting ready to go on a date with your guy, and you ask him, "Do I look fat in this dress?" You just set him up to fail, because he wants to answer you and make you happy, and if he cringes for moment, he's in trouble. So, don't set up a guy to fail.

Another thing about understanding men, one of the things we fear most is hearing the words "We need to talk". When that happens, we men freeze up.

So when it comes to understanding guys, it's better to approach us in a more casual, calm environment, as opposed to coming off too serious. Men are logical creatures.

It's best to trigger our thinking senses versus other feeling senses. When you want to ask a guy a question, ask him what he's thinking rather than what he's feeling. That's one of the best ways to understand men.

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