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How to Read a Guy's Mind

Learn how to read a guy's mind with the help of relationship expert Jonathon Aslay in this Howcast video about men and love.


None of us are mind readers, okay. But the best way to tell what's going on in a guy's mind is his actions match his words.

Action-matched words are the best way to determine what's going on in a guy's head. So when a guy says he's going to call you and doesn't call, what does that say about him? When he says he's going to text and he doesn't text, what does it say about him?

What does it say about him when he makes a plan for a date and he picks you up on time? His actions are matching his words. Now, when a woman is worried about what's going on in a man's mind, it's because maybe they are not emotionally connected with one another, they're not able to communicate well, and she's trying to figure him out instead of having a conversation.

The best relationships are the relationships where they communicate and share each others’ feelings, but if you are trying to pull it out of his head, first off you are not going to be able to do it. Nobody can read each others’ minds. But just remember that the best way to read a man's mind is through his actions and his actions tell you everything.

So if he's into you he's showing it and if he's not into you he's showing it by his lack of action. And that's the best way to read a man's mind.

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